Emotion
In our day-to-day lives we encounter negative and positive emotions. Jealousy, hatred, anger, anxiety, depression, suffering are some of the examples of Negative Emotions. While, compassion, empathy, love, positive attitude, emotional stability (sthithapragynatha) are some of the examples of Positive Emotions.
All negative emotions take a toll on our health, relationships at home & work and deprecates our general well being. On the other hand, positive emotions fosters a congenial environment wherein it mitigates all negative emotions as stated above.
Not a single one of us want to be unhappy, do we? So, why do people suffer in life? People suffer because of their expectations and beliefs. There was a women who was suffering in her life. She believed that she could wear a number six shoe on a number eight foot!
With Negative Emotions our interpersonal relationships tend to get tensed up, particularly on the work front. Isn't it? Instead of producing results, we become busy managing our negative emotions with people. We are busy keeping internal accounts and settling scores with each other.
Hence, emotional cleansing is not only good from a spiritual perspective but also on the work front.
How to cleanse Negative Emotions
When the negative emotions occur such as jealousy, hatred, anger, anxiety and etc. do not participate in them. In other words, just observe the thoughts and look within if your emotions are affecting your body physiology, such as eyes wide open, anger in the face, body shiver, acid re-flux. Instead of supporting the cause for the negative emotions, start observing your body reactions. This will automatically begin de-energizing the negative emotion. This can be better understood by the following example:
When you're watching an action packed movie, there are scenes such as burning buildings, chasing, destruction and host of negative things. But, the movie screen on which it happens is not affected. It remains plain and white. The screen is the mind and destructive acts are the negative emotions. Emotions come and go but your mind (the self) remains unaffected.
Is there any other way to purify emotions?
Yes, there is. There is always a subject, whether a person or a thing around which the negative emotions revolve. So, when a negative emotions occur, mentally try to do the opposite of that on the subject (person, incidence or a thing). For example, when you see someone you dislike or feel jealous, try to shower love or appreciation mentally on that person. If you practice this over and over, the negative emotions gets weakened and will soon be replaced by positive emotions. In Sanskrit it is called as, "Partikpaksha Bhavana".
This Sadhana over time will move a person up from a lower self to a higher self.
Hari Om
With Negative Emotions our interpersonal relationships tend to get tensed up, particularly on the work front. Isn't it? Instead of producing results, we become busy managing our negative emotions with people. We are busy keeping internal accounts and settling scores with each other.
Hence, emotional cleansing is not only good from a spiritual perspective but also on the work front.
How to cleanse Negative Emotions
When the negative emotions occur such as jealousy, hatred, anger, anxiety and etc. do not participate in them. In other words, just observe the thoughts and look within if your emotions are affecting your body physiology, such as eyes wide open, anger in the face, body shiver, acid re-flux. Instead of supporting the cause for the negative emotions, start observing your body reactions. This will automatically begin de-energizing the negative emotion. This can be better understood by the following example:
When you're watching an action packed movie, there are scenes such as burning buildings, chasing, destruction and host of negative things. But, the movie screen on which it happens is not affected. It remains plain and white. The screen is the mind and destructive acts are the negative emotions. Emotions come and go but your mind (the self) remains unaffected.
Is there any other way to purify emotions?
Yes, there is. There is always a subject, whether a person or a thing around which the negative emotions revolve. So, when a negative emotions occur, mentally try to do the opposite of that on the subject (person, incidence or a thing). For example, when you see someone you dislike or feel jealous, try to shower love or appreciation mentally on that person. If you practice this over and over, the negative emotions gets weakened and will soon be replaced by positive emotions. In Sanskrit it is called as, "Partikpaksha Bhavana".
This Sadhana over time will move a person up from a lower self to a higher self.
Hari Om